As Pride season comes up, it’s increasingly harder to get performers to sit still for interviews. Between designing and filming submissions (and, frankly, the sheer mental toll it takes to prepare for the summer), I’ve decided to use this column to collect and share some prideful moments from within our own Camosun community. So, I am turning to you, Nexus readers, in hopes you are feeling prideful as well.
I remember my first Pride fondly. This would have been in 2018, in Winnipeg, Manitoba—a place where many still hide until that bright, beautiful day where we can all be seen in safety. I didn’t realize at that point how much of an impact the community would have on my life until I arrived in Victoria. Although my coming-out journey has been short to date, it’s been the unbreakable bonds with others that have kept me strong and grounded as I start my transition as an adult to the person I’m truly meant to be.
Taking on roles and responsibilities as a leader, advocate, and “mother bear” has given me the chance to open my own heart and world to an array of beauty and passion, and an expansion of knowledge and care. These titles I do not take lightly; I’ve instilled them into every fibre of my being and soul.
As an extension of my new role as Camosun College Student Society pride director, I especially want to highlight students that already give so much up for education, and create ways that make Camosun College a safe, loving, and upbeat environment for all.
Do you have someone in your life who makes the 2SLGBTQIA+ community an even better place to be? From social events, shows, food drives, or positive supportive community vibes, is there someone you would love to see have a shout-out? I want to hear about it.
I’m super happy and grateful for taking on the pride director role for Camosun this term. My goal is to take this position with pride and be a voice for students who may otherwise be unheard. So why not start with those who fly under the radar but deserve a shout-out for their positivity and drive?
While these past few months heading into the federal election were stressful, we saw a side of what the future may have become. Some people were welcoming and reassuring; others, not so inclusive. As a community, we came together despite fear to support one another, voted for what we knew was correct in our futures, and ensured kindness and inclusiveness was at the top of our minds with each ballot.
It’s integral to our collective well-being that we amplify marginalized voices. The stories and emotions that are passed through generations are what remind us of where we came from and how we are blessed to live in this world today.
It is the many that carry hope for all into the future: Marsha Johnson and Sylvia Rivera in the Stonewall Riots; Harvey Milk fighting for equality in workplaces; Barbara Gittings advocating for the decriminalization of homosexuality; drag queens and kings promoting safe queer spaces; every march for equal rights. We are stronger together. We make differences together.
So let’s celebrate the many. Support all. Share our voices, and uplift one another.
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