Social Survival 101: How to ask better icebreaker questions

Learning to effectively break the ice when meeting new people is integral to productive networking. But in the heat of the moment, it’s easy to get stuck regurgitating the same dusty old questions that have become less meaningful over time. Rather than remain chained to these stale habits of inquisition, let’s take a moment to […]

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Hold My Beer, I Lost My Keys: How to nail a great job

How does anybody get an honest, good-paying job anymore? I’m not talking about taking split shifts at Taco Bell to keep the lights on—I’m talking about a career that sustains a good quality of life. A pay grade that allows you to raise a family, put food on the table, and afford that bitchin’ Ms. […]

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Freedom from Addiction: Tearing through the shame

As someone recovering from sex and love addiction (as well as addiction to other behaviours), I have many friends in the community of addicts. In my last article, I talked about the necessity of community and connection with others if we are to recover our true selves and live meaningful, fulfilling lives. The gift of […]

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Politics and Other Nonsense: Looking back on the federal election

Now that the election is over, can we put the dirty politics behind us? Trudeau is still our prime minister, and the pipeline is still going through. What’s different is that the Liberals now have a minority government, which could be a good thing—historically, however, the Canadian political parties don’t work together very well, so […]

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Queering: The queer perspective on media

We’re in a time where the use of queer imagery and ideas in media are still used for shock factor, and queerbaiting is used as a marketing scheme for both television and advertising. This lack of authentic queer content has caused a sort of phenomenon of queering the media we observe as queer people applying […]

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Queering: A queer sense of place

I was recently introduced to a queer geography project called Queering the Map. It’s a simple platform—an interactive online map hued in pleasing pinks, greens, and blues that participants can plop pins down on, locating and describing queer spaces or sites of their own queer experiences. The map is heavily freckled with pins, and users […]

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Politics and Other Nonsense: A voting guide for the frazzled student

I know: voting is a very dry topic that your uncle bugs you about at Thanksgiving dinner once a year. In addition to being incredibly dull, voting can also be very confusing and quite frustrating. With the federal election just behind us, I’m going to try to simplify the voting process in the hopes that […]

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Hold My Beer, I Lost My Keys: Tushy Tinder tips

When it comes to dating, I’ve always been given advice such as “Be yourself,” “Don’t be weird,” and “Absolutely do NOT talk about eating someone’s ass.” Believe it or not, this is actually terrible advice when it comes to Tinder. Changing my bio to “Let me lick your bum” was the greatest revelation in my […]

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Camosun Business Study Group column: And, finally, the what

In this club’s first two columns, I explained the importance of “why” and the necessity of “how.” Finally, it’s time to address what you do. A common question I ask people I work with is “Why are you here?” The most common response is “To make money.” That is a what; fast-food businesses pay money. […]

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Social Survival 101: How to walk away from an ideological mob with grace

In a society where you can often find yourself surrounded by people who seem certain that the fate of the world hinges on their ability to propagate and adhere to trending Web 2.0 gospels, it can sometimes be difficult to affirm the value of your mundane World 1.0 existence. When catechized by these hashtag-hyped proselytizers, […]

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