Freedom from Addiction: Connection or addiction?

Central to the quest of a sex/love addict is connection to another. Whether fleetingly, through pornography or sex, or longer-term, via the promise of a committed, fulfilling romance, connection—or rather the great imitator of connection, addiction—makes us feel alive and powerful and free. That is, until it leads to inevitable disappointment and emptiness. Some sex […]

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Freedom from Addiction: Choose the red pill

When I think of waking up to reality, I often think of the popular 1999 movie The Matrix. The main character, Neo, must choose either the red pill, which would allow him to know things as they really are, or the blue pill, which would enable him to continue his life as usual.  Neo doesn’t […]

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Camosun MyWellness column: Helping those with mental-health issues

As we roll into February, seasonal depression is in full swing, and so are those year-round disorders that so many of us struggle with. But what if you’re on the outside? How can you offer support to someone that doesn’t know how to ask for it? Often, when people you love are dealing with anxiety, […]

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Camosun Business Study Group column: The best place to network

No small amount of importance has been placed on networking, especially for students who are uncomfortable in this endeavour. Vancouver Island is small compared to Vancouver, Ottawa, or any major city in the US. Camosun does a great job gathering employers looking to hire freshly minted graduates, but as a student I would argue that […]

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Politics and Other Nonsense: Bike-lane concerns

Bike lanes are a necessity for many students, especially those who can’t afford a car. Many other community members also need bike lanes to travel, as riding bikes to work or elsewhere saves a considerable amount of money on bus tickets, gas, and insurance. In addition to saving people money, bike lanes encourage greener forms […]

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Camosun Business Study Group column: How to create culture, part 2

Previously, we talked about culture, its importance, and what it really means to a company. Do we hire from the outside or promote from within? The thought is if we can find someone who is a good fit, they’ll be successful and the business will carry on. In the book Built to Last by Jim […]

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Camosun MyWellness column: Five ways to branch out in 2020

As we kick off the new year, it’s easy to get wrapped up in school, work, life… you name it. But staying connected with your community will end up flowing into other areas of your life—it’s all about balance. The MyWellness program wants students to stay happy, healthy, and balanced this year, so that’s why […]

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Politics and Other Nonsense: What a royal move to Canada entails

There’s been a lot of misinformation circulating about the Duke and Duchess of Sussex’s big move to Canada. This is rather ironic, considering that the entire reason that they are moving to BC is to avoid negative press and fake news.  In the past, Meghan Markle has had terrible encounters with the paparazzi in Britain […]

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Freedom from Addiction: Accepting truth

I drive from here to Kelowna, then to Calgary, and back to Victoria a few times a year. Driving alone, which I usually do, there is time and space enough for me to think deeply about things. Having lived in active addiction for most of my life (save the past two years that I have […]

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Camosun Business Study Group column: How to create culture, part 1

Many of my former teachers have expressed the importance of a business culture, a good “fit” of people in a company, but when I asked one how someone creates culture, the answer did not seem so clear. “Hire the right people,” she said, and when I asked how to do that, she only said it […]

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